Comments on: A Bad Pick-up Line VS A Great Conversation Starter

By: Virtutus

Virtutus — Sun, 28 Jun 2009 22:55:11 +0000

Nice video. I’ve just subscribed to your channel, and I like your style. Alpha females are such a turn-on. I’m glad you aren’t reserved about asking guys out or falling into the stereotype of a pursued, ********** woman. =)

By: jabarbq

jabarbq — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 02:54:30 +0000

it’s always good to hear how women see things.

By: happyguy20

happyguy20 — Fri, 19 Jun 2009 16:37:10 +0000

there is a girl where i work and i dont really know how to talk to her, i think she is great and beautiful but i am always affraid i am not good enough for her.
should i approach her at work? in public? should i approach her by calling her to other place than work? thanks for the advice

By: jennelli17

jennelli17 — Tue, 16 Jun 2009 22:49:05 +0000

I could tell you various different techniques on how to approach her.

But at the end of the day if you believe that you are not good enough for her, then no matter what you do or say, it will ultimately fail.

Remember you are as good as the best and no better than the rest.

The most important thing is to approach with confidence and be detached from the outcome …

I can’t go into detail here, but if you need more help, just send me a message ok?

Hot Alpha Female

By: studymuncher

studymuncher — Sun, 14 Jun 2009 23:08:29 +0000

Hey Jen,
Nice vid. In fact your channel is great in general! There is a real need out there for direction when it comes to guys picking up girls and who better to give that direction than a woman. One thing I think that plagues a lot of guys is the fear of rejection. We’re so scared of the girl rejecting us that we don’t even bother to ask her out. Maybe you could comment on that (or even make a vid). I’d be keen to hear your thoughts….Thanks a lot.

By: CoachElkins

CoachElkins — Thu, 11 Jun 2009 11:24:17 +0000

The defining factor behind a “Good” vs. “Bad” pickup line is in the intention. If you are a man of value, and you are seeking to express something honestly to a woman in the hope of improving her “moment” then the time spent was of value, regardless of her reactrion to the comment. Under the pretext of the topic, “Pickup Lines”, it already presupposes a motive to trick the woman. If you cannot be spontaneous while being yourself, then you are already attempting to attract the wrong person.

By: CoachElkins

CoachElkins — Tue, 09 Jun 2009 15:23:15 +0000

P.S.

Jen, “your” intention in behind making these video’s says a lot about you, and it is nice to know there are people in the world who care about helping others with their illusionary deficiencies.

By: jennelli17

jennelli17 — Sat, 06 Jun 2009 18:25:14 +0000

Coach Elkins,

Thank you for this insightful comment, you do make a very valid point.

I believe its such a simple understanding that a lot of men seem to be confused about.

A lot of the dating advice out there is based on acting and behaving like someone else.

When really learning about attraction with women is really based on “being” that which women are attracted to.

Cheers =)

Hot Alpha Female

By: konsleking

konsleking — Fri, 05 Jun 2009 06:22:07 +0000

What kind of topics do women find intrest towards?

By: SemainedeBonte

SemainedeBonte — Tue, 02 Jun 2009 16:05:33 +0000

And, oh yeah, if she doesn’t fall to her knees and beg to go on a date with you… don’t throw a hissy fit, get mad, and start cussing her.

It *really* burns your bridges.

Just saying.